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Put on Kindness

Kindness is a willful act. You do not act kindly automatically like how body organs do which are controlled by the autonomic nervous system. The heart involuntarily pumps blood to your system. Your eyes involuntarily blink when bright light flashes. These are automatic responses. But kindness do not come automatically. In truth, people can be biased in showing kindness. You choose the people you want to show kindness. Therefore, if you want to behave kindly to others, you have to will yourself to act kindly. Showing kindness then is a choice. Paul instructed the Christians in the City of Colossae who were predominantly Gentiles and having doctrinal problems at that time, “Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience,” -Colossians 3;12. As a believer, chosen by God through the marvelous grace of Jesus Christ, you are instructed to put on kindness. The phrase “put on” connotes an idea of wearing something or adding something to your body. You put on or wear a clothing that you find most desirable. It is similar to putting on kindness. You have to find it pleasing to wear kindness in you. When you have received Jesus as your Lord and Savior by faith, you become a new creation with a new heart and new mind (2 Corinthians 5:17, Ezekiel 11:19). However, this must be continuously be evident through faithful obedience. Putting on kindness, then, is an act of obedience to God.

Wear kindness with pleasure and confidence. I used to buy some magazines featuring my favorite showbiz stars. I see their picture plastered on the front page with all their glamour and beauty. They wear expensive and branded clothing from the tip of their head to the soles of their feet. Such pride and pleasure you see in their face. Of course, anyone wearing Balenciaga, Prada, Armani, or Christian Dior (to name a few high-end brands) would truly be exuding confidence and exhilaration at any time and in any occasion. The thing is, if you wear kindness, would you feel that same confidence and pleasure of wearing it? Are you confident to wear it at any time and any occasion? When your co-worker turns his grumpy mood on you and spills out pricking words of displeasure against you, can you keep wearing that kindness? Or are you going back to your closet to change your clothing branded as “spiteful”? When your boss is arrogant and demeaning, can you still put on kindness? When your spouse can be so irritating, can you still wear kindness? When a churchmate becomes insensitive to your feelings, can you still keep up with kindness? When you are confronted with great need, but you are also asked to give, can kindness win? These are only some of the difficult scenarios which actually happen. In truth, it would be an ideal person to be able to put up with these kind of situations. I, for one, could hardly deal with these displeasures without some grumblings of my own. But when the Word of God instructs you to put on kindness and all other virtues, it only means, it is not an impossibility to be kind even in trying circumstances. It may be difficult, but it is not impossible. Because you are to put on a new nature; the nature of Christ. “But that is not the way you learned Christ!— assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in him, as the truth is in Jesus, to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds,” -Ephesians 4:20-23. But you might say, “It is just too difficult for me. I cannot find the grace to be kind to difficult people or in difficult situations.” Yes, you can! As long as it is your desire to obey Jesus. Remember God’s comfort to Paul, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” -2 Corinthians 12:9. Tap on the abundant grace of God for you and rely on Him so you can put on kindness with confidence and great pleasure even in difficult situations. Anything good that you desire to do and anything good in you comes from God. “For it is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure.” -Philippians 2:13.

Published by Deborah Agustin

A High School Teacher who loves to write.

19 thoughts on “Put on Kindness

  1. With the questions you threw, my answer would be”I can be so “meantous”(street terms for mean) to them too, 😅 haha! Kidding aside , very hard to be kind with people who are so mean, you know what I mean😅😅😅 but praise the Lord that He enables us to be kind in trying times when we are not able to be kind though 😊

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  2. I love the idea that you wear kindness like clothing. I never really thought of it like that. So sad. I have had an entire wardrobe of gentleness, kindness, ect. in my closet that I never knew I had. I always thought of it in a different way; BEING kind and gentle , but not wearing it proudly and confidently as clothing. Thank you. You have inspired me to think differently today. You made me smile. Blessings to you and yours, VICTORIA


  3. God is conforming all regenerated believers into the image of Christ which won’t be completed until glorification. It is helpful to be mindful that He causes all things and all things work together for good to those that love God. The flesh is always present but the scripture says we overcome by our faith which is the gift of God


  4. Yes. So insightful and powerful weapons God has given us. Think about how these virtues are against the darkness. Instead of spiteful we fight back with Kindness. Awesome God!!! “Put on” the full armor of God…to me Jesus is the Armor. Bless bless bless all of you out there in Blog land! God has done great and mighty things thru theses writings. Amen


  5. Hmm it seems like your blog ate my first comment (it was super long) so I guess I’ll just sum it up what I wrote and say, I’m thoroughly enjoying your blog. I too am an aspiring blog blogger but I’m still new to the whole thing. Do you have any helpful hints for first-time blog writers? I’d definitely appreciate it.


  6. Thanks on your marvelous posting! I actually enjoyed reading it, you can be a great author.I will ensure that I bookmark your blog and will eventually come back down the road. I want to encourage continue your great writing, have a nice afternoon!


  7. Nothing is too difficult if our intention is to honor and obey God. Practice makes perfect, always wear kindness anywhere and to everyone. Kindness pleases God. Let us be kind to everyone. ❤️❤️❤️

    Thank u mam Debbie 💓💓💓

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